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Posted by Pinoy Pan de Sal on Tuesday, March 13th, 2007 @ 11:05 pm in Personal - Philippines.
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I know. You're probably thinking - for someone who says she loves Vox, it sure did take her a while to post her love letter. Guilty as charged. And my reason is pretty lame. I've been setting up my Wordpress blog. (Setting it up and creating a post on why I don't heart Wikipedia that I asked my boss to approve.) Ha! So much for the love!
Truth be told, my Wordpress is meant to be my 'serious' blog. The one where I attempt to actually call myself a 'blogger' and not just someone who is having... fun.. and ranting about my day... or sharing... more personal thoughts. Make sense? Here on Vox, I feel free to unleash... me. While on Wordpress, I am attempting to be more.. polished? Pretentious? Hahaha! Profound?!
I guess what I'm figuring out is that Vox and Wordpress have different audiences. At least that's how I see it. And what I've experienced... so far. Vox is friendlier and has more of a neighborly feel while Wordpress is less friendly but more specific. At least in terms of defining who you are and hoping to be found and linked to and from.
Am I making sense...?
I found Vox through Debbie Weil's The Corporate Blogging Book. Mena Trott, the founder of SixApart (and Vox), is one of the featured bloggers in the book. I had to read it for work. So while reading, I would check out all the blogs that Debbie wrote about. When I looked at Mena's, she makes mention of how she's been blogging privately on mena.vox.com. I was intrigued. I clicked. I found. I didn't sign up... yet. A week went by and there was an influx on Multiply, where I've been active for two years. Suddenly, almost everyone I knew was on Multiply. So I peeked around Vox and did what any sane person would do. I had my daughter sign up. One look at all the templates and she was hooked. One look at all the fun my kid was having and I had to get in on the action.
So sign up I did and hog the computer I did more of.
2AM on Day One. Kyera: "Are you still Vox-ing?! You've been online since this afternoon, Mom!"
10AM on Day Two. Kyera: "What time did you sleep last night?! I can't believe you're Vox-ing again...."
4PM on Day Three. Kyera: "Seriously, Mom, you need to stand up from the computer. You're Vox-addicted. You need to go brush your teeth."
I reluctantly stood up and let her use our poor overworked desktop. And I really needed a bath.
I don't know what got into me. Was it the QotD's that I wanted to answer? Or the VoxHunts that needed finding? Or the books and audio and photos I just had to upload?! Or the interesting people I just had to Add to My Neighborhood?! Or the Groups?!
I overdid it. Like eating too much chocolate chip cookies, or grilled burgers, or vanilla ice cream in one sitting, I had to stop myself and breathe. Or so I had hoped. The blogging bug had bit me hard - Debbie's book and Vox and Multiply - and I just had to get... one... more. A... serious... commercial... one... and... then... I... would... stop.
Give me six months and we'll see who's still standing. Or who else has joined the fray. I hear Blogger's another good free service...
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The cheese-headed one has a decision to make that affects our relationship. I don't want to reveal too much, but I will say that one outcome sees me moving cross-continent in the immediate future to be with him full time, and the other sees us going our separate ways.
Strangely, that we have come to this is a comfort to me. Ours is a relationship that was never intended to last, never intended to transcend the post-coital secrets confessed in the dark. But it did. And now what was supposed to be temporary has turned into a two-year-old fairy tale. This decision is the next step. It was always going to come to this.
Of course it scares me. Until very recently I've been paralyzed by the mere possibility that we have already gone through our lasts. The last kiss. The last dinner. The last morning I would spend waking up to those hands. I've been so distraught imagining (or struggling to) a life that does not find me sitting on the floor by his feet with my head resting against his thigh. He has been more than lover, more than boyfriend. He's been my dominant, and he's done it well.
I spent most of my weekend observing the train wreck that is Nadine. She is going through a break-up and to say that she isn't taking it well is an understatement. She is an intense creature, and she always has been. She is one of those girls who loves well and fiercely, but the flip side of that is that she responds to despair and depression just as fiercely. I spent hours with her at the terrace of a church (an ironic refuge for two such as us) at two in the morning, lying down next to her on the cement and the grass and wondering what to say, what to do. How to react when someone you care about shows up bearing two vertical scars from her elbow to her wrist as witness to her grief.
What shook me was how much of myself I could see in her. I have never cut myself like that, but I know that fire. What she does to her body I do to my emotions, spurred by that same pained desire to be consumed in the hurting. So I understand her, I have been her, I would have been her, but as I watched her that night I decided something has to change. I don't want to be that utterly lost.
And I've decided that I won't be. If he does choose the path which leads away from me, so be it. I will cry and whine and scream but I will get over it. Sometimes, I think deciding you'll be okay is enough.
Still, I am excited. It is true that I could end up with nothing but if he chooses otherwise... if he chooses to pursue this... it could be the beginning of something entirely new. A relationship engineered to last, instead of one whose expiry date is simply constantly postponed. This could mean everything I have wanted it to mean. This could be everything it was never allowed to be.
I know that I shouldn't get my hopes up, but it is hard not to. Already I am imagining just the flight to Oz, because if he chooses the way I think he will choose there will certainly be a flight. Already I am imagining the restless waiting on the plane, the landing, how he'll meet me at the train station the way he did that first time. How the next time I kiss him it will have a certainty to it that all the previous kisses lacked. How when he undresses me next, literally and otherwise, it might be the last time he ever has to.
Cross your fingers for me. I will find out in ten weeks.
Posted by Litratista on Tuesday, March 13th, 2007 @ 1:48 am in Personal - Philippines.
A few years ago, I found this dirty ugly kitten on the street who was meowing like crazy, probably hungry out of his wits. I adopted him and named him Mang-mang. He’s now a grown up cat who has a live-in partner (lives with us). I named her Keng-keng. Filipinos have a fondness for repeating syllables and turning them into names. Also, I admit I don’t have the talent when it comes to naming my pets hehe...
Mang-mang and Keng-keng just had a child who’s scrawny but looks cute nonetheless – I named him Ting-ting. She likes sleeping outdoors on top of anything she can reach. Silly cat!
Here are their photos. From the left to right: Keng-keng (she loves to sit on my lap), Mang-mang (super lazy, always sleeping) and the scrawnily cute Ting-ting.
I had a dog once but she was run over by a car when she
suddenly ran outside our gate. I went home from school and she was lying dead
on our doorstep. A neighbor found her on the street. I was seven years old then
and it was such a sad traumatic experience. From then on I decided to have cats
as pets instead.
Cats are more independent, more agile. My friend’s cat fell
from the 8th floor of her condo and walked away without any broken
bones. It takes less effort to take care of cats. We once went off to vacation for
one week and forgot to leave food for our cats – well they were still alive
when we returned. I wondered what they managed to eat. Then we heard complains
from our neighbors that pieces of their fried fish vanished from
their tables. Our cats stole them lol!